"And that has gone both ways. My point to D is that she is trading her precious time waiting for someone who is demonstrating he is not interested in reconciling. That's not a "hard line" approach.. It's pointing out a brutal reality."
My question was this....
Please explain exactly what point you are trying to get across herE.
I added the E. Feels like Wheel of Fortune sometimes.. Can I buy a vowel? (Well R is not a vowel.. but I do tend to leave it out sometimes)
What is it that you want her to do different? File? Quit? Act TMR?
What is the goal with your post?
See.. I respect you because I know Coach. "We" (Me and Coach) are not friends and do not "talk" beyond DB.com. We just post on the same posts sometimes. I have read 90% of Coach's thread though. So I question the motive here some. I don't want you to stop posting "here".. I just want to understand what you are saying.
The reality is..
#1.. D is on her way to a D (5-6 months from now).
#2.. Up to this point in time she has done nothing to change that. Which is good. She has not hurried it.. she has just been quiet. As far as he can see.
#3.. She has journal-ed. We can all see that. We feel for her.. and really want her to step out of "this".
#4.. D.. just has to walk this path some more. To me.. it is her hard head. But.. I like that.
#5.. D needs confidence. In her self. She needs to understand her value. From what I am seeing.. this has increased.. "some".
#6.. D needs to get her "statement" going. I have asked for this for a while. My general thought was that they (D and H) would have a face to face incoming. The little interaction in the stairs was not what I had in mind. I in vision it across a table.
#7.. D needs a kick in the as$ to "see" the chances she has coming.
So.. should she give it one last HU Ra... or just quit now and push to get out of this as quickly as possible?
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
