So I went upstairs fully-clothed and had the fortitude and presence of mind to say this to Mr. A:
Me: Last night was for old time's sake. It was fun. J: Stop it. Me: I'm serious. J: Just lay with me then. Me: Lay with you? J: Yeah, just lay with me.
So I did - fully clothed - and he was touching my chest, which I loved. Then he tried to take it further and I said no. That was an unprecedented boundary for me.
So I said no very firmly and he said ok, and then we were just laying there. And literally like 10 seconds later he said, Well I guess I'll get out of your hair then. And I said, Ok. And then I got up out of bed and he followed. And then he went into the bathroom for a minute.
He came out and said something about switching the cable out of his name. Then he left. I ushered him out. I saw him sit in his car for a minute and then leave.
