Yep, letting go of trying, hoping, and waiting for somebody else to change is a nasty habbit, and it's a hard one to kick, but....
If they are in orbit around another body, why make them the center of your orbit? You don't have to be nasty, you don't have to be unkind, you don't have to expect anything at all if you are finding your own voice and your own life.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-