I told my XW for years that if something happened like if she D me, etc. I would be gone, no friends, nothing. It was her greatest fear not having me in her life somehow. When she told me she no longer wanted to work on things with me and was filing, I told her that whether we were friends or not depended on how she was during the divorce.

Things went pretty smoothly as far as the D, but after the D was final, I just could'nt be friends. I decided to play it safe and work for a fair D.

Formerly SGfan
M:38
W:33
M:8 yrs
T:10 yrs
Bomb: Dec '08
Separated: 4/18/09
Divorce: 8/28/09
XW Affair began: April 08