I always get "roped" in when we start talking about him.
New experiement for you and STBXW: do what guys do best: talk about yourself. If it's about your S, it's really about YOUR S The world is now revolving around you.
Sooner or later you will return to being the center of your own universe anway, so you might as well experiment with it.
Don't do this on future dates though. Try to listen more than you talk on those.
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The world is now revolving around you.