Does she work in a Technology job, or is she savvy with computers?
She might be a tough nut crack here. I mean think about if I decided to have an affair. The FBI would have a hard time catching me in it.
From what you said there are 3 possibilities that come to my mind:
1) She is mad tech savvy, and it covering it so well.
2) She had a 1- or 2-time fling with the boss, and is horribly guilty. Guilt can COMPLETELY color emotions and make a WAS feel like they have no love for their partner.
3) She's actually not having an affair. She may "fit the pattern", but truly may not be. How many people are stopped at airports because they are identified by "pattern recognition and behavior"? Most of them just may be nervous about flying, or sick or whatever.
If #2 is the case, YOU NEED TO STUDY HOW TO READ BODY LANGUAGE. And read on how to tell if a person is lying.
PRACTICE doing this on friends and coworkers BEFORE YOU CONFRONT HER. Then when you are comfortable, sit her down, and ask her directly. Then DIRECT THE CONVERSATION based on her answers and choice of words. You then catch her in a BLATANT contradiction.
If 1) is the case, then you might want to "lose" the iPad charger. There is NO monitoring software for ipads. You basically then FORCE HER into using a PC where you have monitoring software installed.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
