So I have read the thread on the 50 signs of a possible EA/PA, the W is displaying about 2 of them, when before 3 years ago she displayed about 40 of them. I do not think there is anything going on, as I have said before she has turned into a recluse, work, kids and home that is it.
Before we left for the movie, I told her I wanted to stop at the book store. She asked what for? I said to look for a book(duh!) she asked what the book was for, I said for "me". She says your not going to tell me what the book is about? is it for your issues? I simply said with a big smile, it is a book that I would like to look at for my issues and how they affect us. She says so your looking at a relationship book, which includes me and your not going to tell me what it is? i said "nope" with a big smile, she smiled and laughed, which hasnt happened in a long time. She also said why havent you read the other books I have gotten us? I just shrugged my shoulders.
We had a good time at the movies, wore some new clothes(brother hand me downs) but hand me down true religion jeans are not too shabby since they are 300 bucks new! I know she noticed I was looking and acting healthy.
When we were about to leave I leaned back to help D buckle her seat belt and I got back in my seat and the W said you have a stretch mark on your side. I smiled and said "oh well". I thought it was funny as I am leaning back the W is staring down in the area of you know what as my shirt lifed up. Just let it be.
riving home she was kinda quiet, said she didnt want to go to her GF's house who is hosting a party for some new make a buck quick scheme. W said she would rather take a nap. I told her you said you would go you should go. She then "finally asked about the party last night" was waiting for that all day. I said it was fun, a pool party at some guys house in another town. She asked how much did you drink last night? I told her not a drop, which is the truth, and she didnt second guess me. So all in all it was a good day so far. W is going to pick up a pizza on her way home and we will hang out at the casa.
I did show patience at the movies which was a good thing as well. I get frustrated or used to get frustrated with myine and other kids at the theatre. But I was calm and held and laughed with my kids. W actually tried to get my attention throughout the movie on little stuff, which I acknowledged her with a smile.
