Hey that sounds good but becareful my wife has told no one about affair!! I have told one other person and our MC knows. Do I know if it's still going on no, but she told me at our last MC secession W wasn't going anymore and still has the fake in love feelings for OM even though she said she didnt want to!!
Maybe she will come out of the fog before the big D is final. As far as looking for intel it just eats at me, so I've pretty much stopped.
Maybe she is telling the truth as this did happen to her with her ex the only difference is she wasn't married & we didnt have kids of our own. So becareful and hope for the best that's all we can do.
