I tried, I changed, but still am getting divorced!

[newmama]

That was tougher than I expected. Stbxh arrived and is taking some stuff to goodwill for me. I had to talk to him about getting some of his stuff from the house. It was very hard for me not to choke up.

He is a stranger now. Who is raising my son half the time.

So then I told him if he wanted to get his stuff, he could do it when S and I were at the beach here in a couple of weeks.
He said there might be some things he won't deal with until later.

He said I might want to keep some of the furniture around for when my family comes over for Christmas.

I kept telling him that when I move out next year, I want to downsize all my stuff by then, because I won't have 2 living rooms and won't need 4 dressers, etc.

He said "well if you decide to move, then I can take the furniture at that time. Right now I don't have any place to put it."

I swear he said twice "if you move"

I just looked at him like "that's YOUR problem..." He read my mind and said "yeah I know..."

He is being so nonchalant, the $#@$%&!