Wife is driving back from her hometown (about 5 hours) and she's called 3x, left two voicemails. Then she called my sister to see if I was OK. So I called her, and was really casual, said I've been busy mowing the lawn etc.

Also had a talk with a friend who's known us for 13 years, and who works with my W. She says that there's no affair, just 3-4 women at work trying to lose weight, be independent etc. Like a group MLC...

I told her my W said she never really loved me, and this friend went nuts. Said that was complete bullshit, trying to justify her actions. That my W was crazy about me, but that she's also one who needs lots of attention. And that she's getting close to 40 (36) so it's natural to start questioning where she's going in her life.