Light Bulb moment for me.

Mr. Cool said:

Sounds like more conflict avoidance. Could be that
he's taking a "male" view, and feels like that was the
only thing of substance discussed.


Often times, I'd look at a conversation and see the substantive part as the emotional part of the conversation. My husband would look at it as though the substantive part was the fact exchange.

Often when I used to ask him about the conversation he had with someone, he'd tell me only about the facts, not the emotional part. I always felt he was holding stuff back, lies through ommision.

Man...such a simple explanation!

Thanks Mr. Cool.

And I agree with Shiny, you contribute a lot to us. I learn so much reading your posts.

Hugs!


PIB