Her googling that girl invalidated every one of her verbal claims she made to your face... she was bluffing the whole time to you and her mother...
If she was DONE there is absolutely no reason I can think of to google that female...
The only thing I can think of which is really pushing it is that she is DONE, but she suspects you were cheating on HER FIRST...
But I highly doubt that's why she was doing that research... highly doubt it... A much more likely conclusion is that she's NOT done but that she's just angry and doesn't trust you... and is too damn
So she phone sexes up a TAKEN guy, MOVES IN WITH a 24 year old to date and sleep with him, and is throwing away 1400$ a month in rent and stuff?
I don't know if I'd WANT a reconciliation right now, especially in a few weeks when shes banging this new roommate.
But we will see tonight when we get home. I've arranged a few friends I know to post on my Facebook wall, and see what kind of reaction that may generate from her.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
Yup... Be PREPARED for her to confront you and accuse you of cheating or something.. BALLS of STEEL man.. you need BOS here...
Each time your wife even hints she has a face card and you fold like a cheap pair of underwear... ya gotta get your balls of steel to get in the ring with this wild cat...
TO be honest despite the promiscuity I think you are finding a newfound respect for her competitiveness... I don't think you thought she had it in her
And this is part of the purpose of the INTEL, so you can make an informed deicision...
Right now I don't trust what she tells other men about herself though.. I really think she's putting on a show and she's mostly talk...
She does the same with you... She is all talk with you...
Right now I don't trust what she tells other men about herself though.. I really think she's putting on a show and she's mostly talk...
Funny thing is, is that she USES THE SAME LINES/WORDS OF FLIRT with ALL her guys.
There's one in particular that is suggestive, and I've seen her use it 3 TIMES. On DIFFERENT guys.
Then top out with having to INTERNET SEARCH for "how to attract a guy" and TAKE QUIZZES on "if he likes you".
I wonder if she is REALLY that insecure and that childish. Dude, it took me about 10 minutes of bringing the A-game to get a phone number. And yes I threw it away Allen. But the point is that after WHAT I HAVE BEEN THROUGH, I just had NO FEAR of rejection for a simple talk and phone number. I didn't seed to internet search on how to attract a girl. Hell, all my insecurities have been bled or cried out of me. I came to a healthy place and just went with it.
She however, appears to be scheming, slutting it up, and bribing younger men for what she wants. And all she can sometimes say is "Well there are people out there that want to (blank) me, so why not?"
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
Yup... when a marriage starts to run into a rough patch there are two routes you can take
destructive and constructive...
Let me ask you this.. if when your marriage first started to turn downward your wife can HERE instead of the routes she was taking do you think she would be where she is now?
I honeslty think she just took teh wrong path and it spiraled out of control. You are lucky you found this place or you could be just as mean as her right now
Your wife went to unhealthy places for her marital problems and look where its gotten her
angry and insecure... and headed for divorce... not healthy at all dude...
Yup... Be PREPARED for her to confront you and accuse you of cheating or something.. BALLS of STEEL man.. you need BOS here...
Well she most definitely did NOT do this.
But within 15 minutes of logging into Facebook tonight, she checked my profile.
And then checked it two more times tonight. She must have seen a post by some girl, and went and visited HER PROFILE to see who she was.
BUT, she then messaged a mutual friend and asked him if she thought I was in the "anger" stage, because of some of my posts being happy, saying I'm alone for the week ect. She then called ME psycho!
All my posts referenced was her being gone, and having some peace and quiet around the house.
She did not say ONE WORD to me tonight after I got home either.
But I find it funny she is checking up on me on Facebook (and the girls that post there), but telling friends how "blessed" and "wonderful" her life is EXCEPT for ME.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
I am wondering now if she wonders why you AREN'T pining for her and is taking offence...
I know she keeps saying you aren't over here etc... But my thinking now is that she WANTS you to be broken hearted and pursuant of her and is calling you psycho because you are being casual about the divorce
I would stay on course, this won't change that... When you are dbing correctly it does throw your spouse off and they can get irritated... MWD doesn't mention it, but 180's and such can bug the heck out of your spouse because they can't figure you out after ten years or whatever...
It's all ok, I am just trying to figure out her motivations here and i am suspecting she WANTS you to be a complete wreck right now and you arne't... and that bothers her so she calls you psycho.
He claiming you aren't over her means she WANTS you to be a mess, that's all... its more of a demand than an accusation... She's just accusing you of being what she WANTS you to be like even though there's no evidence of it.
Sort of like if you want someone to be a liar you call them a liar even if they have always told the truth...
She has mentioned several times to a friend the "stages" of divorce, and what one I might be in.
She looked at my Facebook last night and I guess thought I was in the "anger" stage.
She basically said "Can you tell that QS is in the anger stage right now? Read his Facebook posts. He's psycho...."
Could it be possible she is just looking at my profile to see WHERE i am in he divorce "acceptance" process, and it I am potentially seeing anyone else?
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Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
