She still lives with me, mostly uses an iPad for Internet stuff. Nothing on it from what I've seen that would indicate any A electronically. She hasn't admitted anything, denied anyone else being involved at all.
I have access to her FB page, her email, everything. She has a pay as you go phone, but I can get into that when she's asleep.
She works with the suspected OM, who's her boss. She started talking him up about two years ago, like he was the best thing around. Started dressing nicer, wearing makeup, perfume etc which she never did before.
Then about two months ago she starts dieting and exercising like crazy. She normally works at 7 or 8am, but she would go to the YMCA at 5am to work out, shower, then go to work. I have the login logs from the Y, so I can see that she's at least logging in around 5am. Of course she could be leaving right away for a quickie.
She used to have a Sprint phone, and had never once called her boss on his cell. Then, she drops the Bomb on me after coming home from work on Father's Day. At 10:03pm that night, she makes a two minute call to his cell. He had worked that night with her, and he has about an hour commute, so it'd be safe for her to call him without worrying about the OMW wondering who the hell is calling at 10pm.
So I find it very unlikely that she just happened to call him out of the blue after dropping the bomb. Everything points to an affair with him, especially my gut.
I've contemplated a voice activated recorder in her car, a gps phone, or something like that.
