My long, long tale of woe and foolishness

[Quicksilver264]

OK I skimmed through your post, and you ARE REACTING AND NOT ACTING.

1) DO NOT LEAVE THE HOUSE. He screwed up, so why should YOU leave.

2) Decide what YOU WANT. Divorce rips apart people and children. If you want to fight, then FIGHT. Why should some other sleaze woman take away your marriage?

3) If you want to expose the affair, I have EXPERIENCE in doing it to military commanders. I can help you launch a thermonuclear weapon at this affair and have him peeling potatoes for months.

4) Think about getting a job. Seriously. A man having an affair is INSECURE, and NOTHING like a stay at home woman going out into the workforce with PURE DETERMINATION and DRIVE TO SUCCEED will rattle him to the core of his being.

5) If he has a gambling problem, HIS COMMANDERS NEED TO KNOW. If he is to be COMBAT OPERATIONAL with the right SECURITY CLEARANCES, then a gambling addition makes him 10 TIMES MORE LIKELY TO SELL SECRETS.


6) You have got him by the BALLS here. And I mean a vice grip pair of pliers. I can think of so many ways to tear this apart it almost makes me giddy.

7) The Military Family Support Services are EXCELLENT. You need to go to them for help.

8) We are gonna take this ONE STEP AT A TIME. We can get through this if we break it down. We start SMALL and set ACHIEVABLE goals. YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

WE HERE ARE ALL TIRED OF FREAKING CHEATERS AND "OTHER PEOPLE". We will get your back, and step up, muscle up, and throw down.