What are your short term goals that have to do with you and your S? Live in the present. NO pressure. You don't have to do ANYTHING you don't want to, other than, IMO, be the best mom you can be.
Take it easy and I really recommend looking into learning how to heal from being abandoned (by your H) and checking out books or online info.
"Getting Past Your Breakup" by Susan Elliott is something that Donna...found recommended to me on my thread and I wish I read it months and months ago. I found an ebook version on ebooks.com.
I valued the section on grieving which made way more sense than the typical info on grieving that I have found. BUT we can't make people want to grow and get better. YOU have to want it. So when you are ready, check it out!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
