Right--that is what I am doing--keeping an eye on it.
H has this ex girlfriend that I KNOW is looking for him. I don't know if I posted this, but the last time we had trouble (6 years ago) she called and when she asked for H, I asked who this was? She hesitated and said "ex Gfriend name" and I asked if she was his ex and she said yes". We were in the middle of all our trouble and this was NOT the time to talk to him, and I told her that we had a son, and I didn't think reconnecting with old Gfrieds right now was such a good idea. I asked if her H knew of this call and she got pretty flustered and I took that as a NO.
So no contact for 6 years and then a couple of months ago, out of the blue, there is a package for H. It has a shell and a book in it. She sends my H a book? um? wtf?? And the shell his Gmother gave her, since she died she thought he may want it back. Sure.
She sent in the mail and I didn't think anything of it until he got it. When I asked what he got he got mad and I didn't think much of it but then later I must have been suspicious, as I asked again what it was and he told me and SWORE he didn't contact her.
I am thinking someone in his family tells her when we have trouble and she "pops up". Although nobody supposedly really liked her.
H was engaged to her at 19, but broke it off. She was his first Gfriend.
