You know she's going to take your temperature. Work on that charming smile that'll drive her nuts. Think ahead for good things to say, to deflect her.
And then leave. Think catnip.
Our WAS love the idea that we're losers, and that they're better off leaving us for Mr. New Shiny. Well, Mr. New Shiny has just as much baggage, and really isn't motivated like we are. He's just in it for a fling really. The success rate for affair relationships is around 1% according to Allen in the Infidelity section.
We know we're not losers. We're getting a life, we're getting in shape, we're not sitting around anymore waiting for life to come along; we're taking the ride.
Who wouldn't want someone doing that? As opposed to some loser/predator who wants to have an affair with a married man. Think of your opponent like that, a loser/predator.
