I don't know man. I am very new to this myself and can barely figure out what I am doing, but I can say this....
There was nothing mysterious going on. Yes, I would have taken it as good sign if I was in your shoes. Wife is actually caring about what I am doing. But from reading it, you showed her your hand. She might reflect back on it and just think that you were trying to make her jealous.
Just my .02......
Again, I would still be happy though! (but I am also still in that "needy" stage, but slowly working out of it!)
Good Luck!
Me:33 W: 31 M: 8 T: 13 S: 6 D: 8 months The Bomb 7/22/10 "I can't do this anymore, I'm done" http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2048765&page=1