Loved the suggestion Alaskagal! Full visuals on that one!
Part of what made me laugh is that I WAS a library assistant (even have a 2 year diploma) in a past life!!LOL
I DO like the idea of some how mixing it up so that there's not so much focus on "it" (intercourse), so that it's more FUN. I'm game for pretty much anything, and I must say I've never done the prim and proper thing (I have some clothes that would do...I DO teach after all!)
As for the foot massage...BOY COULD I USE ONE!!! I put 9 miles on my pedometer before I got home today (Walmart and Safeway after work will do that for you).
Funny thing about CJ..the man is SOOOOOO ticklish, it's nearly pathological. I mean a KISS to his neck (not a brush or peck) makes him draw away and push up his shoulder.
His feet are also ticklish, I tried to give him a foot massage once and he lasted about 8 seconds.
So...just need to be creative within the given parameters. I WAS planning to make a nice dinner OR take him out tomorrow night as he will have his resume/portfolio done for this job application and he's been working REAL hard on it.
