how feasible would a move be...to a whole new place...new school, new job, new view?
I picked up and moved my boys and it wasn't easy but it was what we needed in order to be able to start fresh
and
we finally settled in with Cori two years ago and just moved into our own brandnew house in the next town over...THAT WE BOUGHT for $40,000 (in move in condition) and we got a contract for deed since our credit sucked
it means the kids will switch schools (again) BUT it was necessary in order to better our situation...
if you approach things with the right attitude it can make a tremendous difference (instead of saying we HAD to move...we say we chose to move....instead of talking about how hard it is to start a new school, we talk about how many cool new things that comes with)
anyway it might be cheaper to rent an apartment somewhere else in the world than to try to keep up with a house there
and
really....the world is your oyster....apply for all different kinds of jobs...keep your mind open