Often in these situations we dont see things how they really are until much later. people marry for several reasons and perhaps not reasons compatable with thier partner. I know people that have married for security and then fell in love.

In my marriage, we were in love, but did not have the maturity and selflessness to make it work. BUT, the love I had blinded me and I did not see all the warning signs.

Last edited by WalkingMan; 08/01/10 03:19 PM.
Formerly SGfan
M:38
W:33
M:8 yrs
T:10 yrs
Bomb: Dec '08
Separated: 4/18/09
Divorce: 8/28/09
XW Affair began: April 08