Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

Well, just got off the phone with her now. I asked about her day, etc... we talked a while about the reunion and then I told her that I was going to go. She stopped and said, "Aren't you going to talk about last night?" I told her that I didn't think anything important happened, just a bunch of guys hanging out.

She then went into, "I told you to invite C, but you didn't. I trust C and thought it was a good idea he was there." I didn't really respond but said that it was just a cool night, don't be paranoid and everything, K and his sister weren't there. She said, "I'm not being paranoid, you know me, it's just I can't believe you would invite these kind of people into our home where you have a wife and son, especially one that has hit on you and I don't feel comfortable with, and if I did the same thing you would be angry and disappointed." I validated her feelings and told her she was right, but nothing went wrong here, and she is the one who told ME to out and have fun while she was gone and stay busy so I wouldn't be lonely/clingy, and I was just doing what she told me to do. She responded with, frankly, "Don't be a douche."

I reassured her again that nothing happened, no girls were partying hard here, etc. And then she ended it with "I don't care either way." Probably out of frustration. I asked her what that meant, and she said "You know what it means". I assume she meant that she didn't care if I was flirty/sleeping with someone else... but I can hardly believe she doesn't CARE given her questions and paranoia.

Am i on target here with my thoughts?