New here but learning slowly. Advice appreciated

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Dear Alb:

Sorry you are here but I can promise you will find a lot of wisdom and solace from the members here. When you need to rant, let'r rip. We can take it, and sometimes give you a perspective of the event you didn't have in the beginning.

My situation is a bit different as at this point the OW has been portraying herself as me in several areas that warrant identity theft. Makes for intersting days.

Do read the resource threads. Go back to them as often as you need. Print off the ones that touch your heart. I did and taped them to my bedroom wall lika a mantra.

There is no definite timeline, as you've learned, and the expected wait time is daunting, to say the least. Just do the best you can to make it about YOU & your KIDS. These are your chief responsiblities, and only he and God can take care of your husband.