Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

I need to update, lots of interesting things happened in the past two days and I need to update.

Remember, she is at the MIL until next Friday.

Friday night I went out with some friends downtown, and talked to her earlier in the day about it. I told I wasn't sure when I'd be back that night. She asked who I was going with and I told her "E, and just a bunch of his friends". She tried to call me that night, but I didn't pick up the phone. No texts, no phone calls.

The next morning I called her while she was traveling to the family reunion about 4 hours away and she was in the car with MIL and sisters. I told her I got home really late last night and didn't want to call to wake her up, but I saw she called and thought I'd see how she was doing. She said, "I tried to call you". I told her that I didn't see the call and by the time I was back it was too late.

I then told her that I would be having some people over at the house Saturday night for a BBQ hangout thing. She asked who was coming - I told her, "just a bunch of people, maybe 20-25 people or so".

She didn't let it stop, she said, "Who is coming?" I told her "E, his friends, S, M, and K and his friends". She accepted it and then I told her I needed to go, I had to get started on my day. She said, "Well, I'm going to be at this family reunion all day today and I'm not sure I can leave and call you, I can talk to you now..." I just told her that it wasn't necessary, just call me whenever.

See, here's where it gets interesting. My friend K has a sister that hit on me pretty hard the other week, and I left the hangout to come home because I was upset about it. My W caught on to it, and I explained to her what happened. She wasn't too happy, but not mad at me. Then in MC this last week I explained to the MC that I was sexually frustrated and I was VERY afraid I would go outside the marriage to seek that elsewhere. My W took that as a threat, but I explained to her it was not a threat, it was only how I was feeling.

Now, fast forward 5 minutes from our conversation when I told her who was coming. She calls me back within 5 minutes of hanging up. I asked what was going on... she said "You should call C and ask him to go." I said I would consider it, and then asked her if everything is cool.... "I'm not thrilled about K being there" was her response. I said "OK" and told her I was on my way out the door.

I got off the phone and thought about it. C is a good friend of both of ours, and I'm thinking she suggested I invite him because he would "watch" me... I can't be certain but that is what my gut tells me.

I talk to her about 5 hours later because my father had some issues at home, nothing important. She asked where I was and I told her golfing with S & M. That I needed to go because I was on the tee.

Fast forward to about 9:00pm. She calls but my phone is inside while I'm hanging outside and I don't see it ring. I then see that she calls again at about 9:45pm and I pickup the phone. I ask her how she's doing, she says fine, and then immidiately jumps into "How are things going there". I told her good, that I was outside earlier when she called, but she keeps asking who's there. I tell her E, S, and a few other friends.

"Is K there?" she asks (sister dude that hit on me). I tell her no that he hasn't showed up yet, but I did call him earlier. She asks, "Is K's sister coming?" I told her I didn't know. We chatted about the days events but I told her I needed to get back to the guests.

An hour later I get a text: How many women are or were in our house?
I didn't see it right away so I texted 15 min later: "Stop worrying. Everything is cool."
She immidiately shoots another back: "How many?"
I send back to her about 15 min later (I had to deal): "Stop worrying. Its only a few guys here playing cards drinking beers."

No more texts after that.

I didn't want her to think I was having some kind of wild ride here, because it wasn't. I was afraid she'd retaliate while at MIL house this week if I didn't calm her.

All in all, I need some perspective on how I handled the situation and what you think is in her head... I'm thinking jealousy? What does that mean for my DB ?