pinhead - if she was miserable when you got married then her bad for not speaking up. I remember once dating someone I felt ho hum about and I saw someone's wedding pictures where they were looking at each other with the love you described, and I broke up with the guy I was dating that night.
Now it's always dangerous to guess what someone else is thinking - maybe she wasn't feeling good, was nervous, etc. - so what do photos from other occasions say to you?
On my wedding day I had trepidations, but you couldn't tell from the photos. We both look very happy.
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