Sorry you find yourself back here ... this is tough stuff ...
Originally Posted By: SecondChance
It hurts. Alot.
Originally Posted By: seeking answers
I know it hurts. It hurts because you love him, it hurts because you are angry. It hurts because he is not the man you knew and depended on, got used to, accepted, and co-parented the children with.
It hurts because this man turned into someone so selfish he is unrecognizable.
Sweetie, I hate to be the one to put it so bluntly, but really ...
It hurts because you are not detached. And that is YOUR work to do.
Cadet is right .... start at the beginning ... it's the only way. Read, or reread the resources ... and
DETACH, DETACH, DETACH.
Good luck, Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
