Donna...Found, Could you please tell me more about being co-dependent ? I really think I am/ was also this. I know/knew our marraige had problems for years, but I was too afraid to admitte it, I kept trying to repair it.

Now, I do not know what was the right thing to do. keep on trying to fix a broken marraige, because I was/ am too scared to move on on my own.

OR should I be happy that I did try everything I knew and DB to fix things things and now I know I can not do it on my own both people in the marraige have to be working on it.

I know I keep saying it. But here I go again.....I am sooooo CONFUSED.


Me:43
H:43
T:20 YRS
M:15 YRS
Bomb: 6/9/08
Bomb#2 7/6/10
Served with papers at work 7/13/10
DD:14, DD:11