W was completely silent tonight, no calls or texts. I could tell she was not pleased when I left, but at least I wasn't lit up like last weekend.
Spoke with a woman at the party who actually goes to our church, she is also a psychologist. After going through "my" story she says my W is lacking the love and attention from me. Of course this woman has heard of DB and while she agrees with a lot of the tools, she feels that if I "act" as if its over and I am moving on then the "issue" in our M of me not showing affection will solidify the W's feelings and push her further away.
She also says our church is pro marriage(what church isn't) and is surprised my W is so adamant about wanting it to be over.
