Well I had written a super long reply on Friday but thanks to virus-ridden desktop it disappeared as I was submitting it.
At this point not sure most of that was worth saying anyway. (See the 24 hour rule applies to many things.)
Long story short, liars lie, because that's what they do. So no I should have expected nothing less. As my brother told me, I need to stop thinking/expecting that ex is operating with the same sense of honor/morals/decency/integrity that I am.
It's true. I know he is a cheat and a liar but somehow I found myself thinking--once I heard the kids say they met her, "He wouldn't go behind my back and introduce the kids to ow. He cc-ed me on his breakup letter to her last September! And told me in April he was not seeing anyone, and agreed to tell me if he started seeing someone that he wanted to introduce to the kids..."
I guess I thought he may lie about porn and strippers and crap but hey I would be ashamed of that crap, too. But I thought that actually involving the kids was just beyond the code of bad behavior. I should not have expected anything decent from the man who tanked our marriage...
