TG, some of we, uh, more mature, LBSs, have already had reason and time to look at our marriages and ourselves before the B. We have gone through our own transitions and know who we are. We have looked at our Ms, identified where we have fallen short, and actually made changes. We have found a life of our own, perhaps for some time. But the B explodes anyway, because it has nothing to do with us. And then our first work is to heal and learn to be alone.
That is, at least, where I am.
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
