I tried, I changed, but still am getting divorced!

[newmama]

For me, it's been like something finally clicks and then you realize - OMG, I've been doing this for like 15-16 f'ing months while DWH has been having his own adventures. F that!

HOLY CRAP. This is EXACTLY what happened to me this month! EXACTLY.

Are you on FB Mrs A? You know, under a pseudoname or something? I am Chatty Newmama.

Well anyway, this recent short dip into the dating scene has taught me
1)be open to men in their 40s (MEN not boys!)

2)I may be turned off by excessive facial hair but I am not turned off by lack of hair (I already knew that but it is a reminder, lol!)

3)The traditional way of learning about someone through interviews (i.e. tell me about your job, your interests, your family, etc etc) IS BORING and unnecessary!

4) I do want a man who is willing to talk! And it is okay- meaning I used to
think that if I overlooked a quiet guy then I was writing him off. But guess what? I love discourse and do not want to be the only one able to verbalize!

5)Dare to be bold with my opinions(as long as I am tactful) and not worry about turning someone off; If I will like him for him, he can like me for me or we shouldn't be together! I learn fast.