what we need and want from our next relationship, whether it is reconciling with your H or not. Food for thought...
I spent a lot of time on this ... and still do ...
I actually took H out of the equation and just identified what I would need and want from a future partner, regardless of who he was. I also thought about what I now had to offer. It was a really good exercise ....
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
