I'm glad you posted again as I have thought about you often, but sorry this is happening.
Sweetie, this what we were afraid would happen if your H returned before he was ready. He just doesn't know what he wants. He is still spinning as evidenced by not being able to make up his mind and stay on track.
Your H is still blaming external forces for his pain. He hasn't stopped to look inside and resolve those issues that are truly what he's running from.
He is still not ready to take on the responsibility of caring for his home and family as it is overwhelming to him.
Again, I'm so sorry you're going through this again. Please keep posting, we'll be here for you.
