Thank you LSG, for clearing it up, I was not sure but felt that's what you were saying. I have just found myself questioning my judgment a lot lately and am striving for clearity in a very un-clear situation as you well know. Also, I was a little stressed because I couldn't remember where I put my DR book and feared she might have found it. Finally I remembered I moved it to a "safer" place
I didn't have time to backslide before she told me of the filing and that sort of took over and made me take a step back. I do plan to continue DB and focus on what I need to do for me and my kids.
It's funny I was talking with a friend last night and he asked what my plans are. Without thinking I said I have to prepare for my next relationship, weather that be with my W, or someone else, it will not be like it has been!
He was shocked and said he had never thought of it that way. I believe it's true, it can't be the way it was, the old R is over and something new will replace it.
