Originally Posted By: TimeHeals
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But isnt that true? An alcoholic is always that, even if they are now living sober.


No, and I'll dump you off with a bus load of abusive drunks before I introduce you to a pack of sober folks so you can see the difference.

All we get from you is excuses.



Crazy as this might sound Timeheals, I took the whole divorce "busting" thing seriously when I came to this site.

Nothing is ever black and white in any relationship. If your wife is cheating then you probably had a hand in that somehow. My wife started sleeping with other guys, I did help that along.

Now me, Im stupid. I actually want to fix my marriage here. I have been taking the advice that some people of put out here towards that end. Am I good at it, of course not.

Im in serious emotional pain with a woman who is just lumping even more of that on me right now.

But there are reason that people are doing what they do. Im simply trying to figure out what is going on in her head right now.

Seriously dude, if you dont have anything helpful to say...dont. Its kinda the thing I go by on internet forums.