Ok Shiney, I have to admit that I have been unable to stay current with your threads, so if you've already covered this topic, please forgive me.
Is it possible that CJ has a wee problem with performance anxiety? Perhaps whenever the atmosphere turns sultry, he is confronted with fears of humiliation, frustration, and esteem busting failure to the extent that he goes into avoidance mode.
Just a thought - probably one that you've thought about on your own.
