Waiting on D and H...just had a "moment" with CJ.

I finally found a top to wear with my flannel, black white and beige tartan PJ bottoms. Black shortsleeves, cotton, zip front.

CJ's first words? Are you wearing a bra with that? I said no...it's to be a COMFORTABLE evening, plus every time D and H drop by I'm not wearing one I HATE those contraptions and whip it off as soon as I get home.

He said something about how much shows when I bend over? So I did (had it zipped about an inch from the bottom)...nothing much. So I said "Not much shows unless I unzip it all the way" and did so.

Did CJ give me a compliment? Any sign of appreciation? No. He said "DON'T".

I brought up Halloween, and he denied being concerned or "checking me over" for "decency" that night.

He just hates when I get any attention of a sexual nature. That wasn't my intent tonight! It's just D and H...heck they've come over when I'm wearing a skimpy spaghetti strapped nightie! I sure as hell wouldn't have these huge pants on if I was going for "sexy"...

I mentioned how it seems that HE doesn't really appreciate my looks...he said he DOES...but I said that actions speak louder.

This afternoon while doing laundry I had on a pair of OLD PJ bottoms that have a strategic rip across the back side. When leaning over in front of him (putting scissors away) I joked about the view.

He just laughed. I said "Not a bad view for a fat girl, eh?" (exercise DOES have its benefits ) and he said "You're not fat". Okay, "Zaftig", I said.

Just curious? What % of men do you figure would have made a wee grab for it?

Shiny