I know the basic concept of the Five Love Languages, but I've never read the book or taken the test. Keeping that in mind, three possibilities come immediately to mind when you say your husband has little interest in sex but self-reports as a primary "touch" person on this Five LL test:

1. Maybe the test doesn't accurately test what you think it does . . it is after all just a quiz out of a self-help book, right?

2. Maybe the test is right, and he's a touch person, but other factors prevent him from wanting sex.

3. Maybe he took the test in your presence (or knew you would see the outcome) and gave the answers he thought you would want to see. Those answers made him look like touch was his primary language because he tried to give you answers that he thought would please you (or at least, numbers that would minimize the confrontation over his answers.)

Last edited by SillyOldBear; 07/31/10 08:59 PM.

Recovering Sex-Starved Husband.