So thanks for helping me to find a way to explain myself I guess ?!?
All of the men I tell not to look for women to help build their sense of self-worth (to find it on their own) argue with me too.
So you know I am not being sanctimonious, it's not like I haven't looked for female company to help build my self-esteem in the wake of breakups at earlier points in my life.
I'm not doing that now. I like female company, and I do not fear relationships, but I am using this time with myself to work on things I want to do that are easier to do without winding up accidentally in a relationship... which is really something that can happen way too easily... at least in my experience.
Last edited by TimeHeals; 07/31/1008:10 PM.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-