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PLEASE LL if you can find some decent boots I can fit I'd be SOOOO grateful! Seriously, I've been shoe/boot hunting for over a year now with NO luck. Doesn't help that the only specialty shoe store in town closed down last year. my mom has a bunion too...she had one removed surgiacally as a teen but put off the other and just never got around to it...I understand boots are the more difficult..what if you tried pay less (a chain that tends to carry a lot of wide with) look for ones that have a zipper that goes to the bottom...the styles today aren't all pointy (don't think I can picture you in pointy ones anyway..more like thigh high combat boots for some reason..those can be sexy too ya know)

Because of my bunion situation, I need extra width near the toes. VERY hard to find...I'm tempted to have a pair MADE fo me! If I knew where to do that! as I just said, there are lot's of styles now adays that do have very wide toe space...too bad you don't live 'round here I'm sure you'd find something in harvard square.

I just had a funny thought....

Tonight D and H are coming over. It's H's birthday tomorrow but as one of her precious kitties died this week, and the death of our pals husband, she wants a low-key evening here with us.

Thing is she INSISTED that it be a pajama party...no make up or anything. So I thought I'd wear my flannel men's PJ bottoms and a little top....but I COULD wear the nice black cotton sheath nightie I bought a few weeks ago!

CJ would FLIP....and not in the manner I'd WANT him to.
how bout something in between? like a new pair of flannel or valoor (that new plushy cosy material that aint so new) bottoms plain or printed...with a tank? do you have time to stop by the mall?

He slept in bed last night...wish I could have stayed but the snoring was too much so I joined him (from the couch) in the morning. He got up before me, saying he'd be back in a bit. I thought...maybe!!

He did come back, but just spooned. never say
"just" ya ya ya, I know you're looking for more..but sometimes we do have to be thankful for what we do get.

 By then my back was getting sore (I was ready to get up) so I asked him to rub it...which he did...then just sort of dozed there. One of the cats joined us.

Finally I said to him "Did you come back to rest, or are we both waiting for the other to make a move?"

He said "Well this feels good..... but you can make a move if you want"... This wasn't quite the response I was hoping for...I said "Well it would be nice to have a sign of interest...."

Just one of those episodes filled with missed opportunities all around. in the end hon, I think it was you who missed the opportunity...

Why, you ask, didn't I just start making "moves"? Well this is personal, but before I can really do so, I have to go to the bathroom, don special undies....It really can't be spontaneous for me in the mornings. Plus his less than enthusiastic response was not terribly motivating. would it be alright for me to say beggars can't be choosers? and why the heck not be spontaneous...who cares what undies your wearing...not like you'll be wearing them for long anyway right?

(Actually I kind of thought he might have gotten up to take a little blue pill and thus come back to bed more ready for love... )

After we got up I asked him if we could talk about this, but we were side-tracked by a call from H and making plans for the evening.

Tomorrow? perhaps

Shiny