21 years of marriage hanging by a thread

[Chuck66]

And I shouldn't be making judgement calls on how hard or easy DB is since I have only been on the roller coaster a short while.

I took the kids to Chuckie Cheese without W and W was happiest I have every seen her smiling and grinning before we left. Still not talking, but it's almost like she is on her own DB site. I told her I would bring the kids back by 1 pm since she wanted to take them to Spray Park (small water park). I get home at 12:30 and she has a note that she will be home at 2 pm. That's a DB thing to do too.

Oh well 180s and GAL are for me not for her. If she wants to GAL too then its good for both of us. I had previously bought the family baseball tickets and she asked if I still had hers or if I had given it to someone else. I said I still have it and asked was she wanting to sell it. She said no I will go with you all. Movie yesterday and baseball game tomorrow.

I think that will be it for awhile and I will bow out of a few of the next outings.

LSG,
When my W is not home I plan even MORE things to do than I normally would. I am trying to keep very busy but sometimes the impression that you are busy is easier than taking the time to actually do everything.

Being positive is key... I keep saying that before I enter any room she is already in.