One more tidbit......no contact from XH for 3 days (kinda long for us-----before bomb we chatted all the time). Last night, while out having dinner with a GF (tapas on a rooftop downtown, overlooking the new baseball stadium --- night game, so the stadium was all lit up --- neat!) received text from XH's sister (she lives in another state) saying she wasn't feeling well and would I please phone her. I did and after hearing her symptoms, told her to go to emergency room. She did and is now feeling better. Got a text message last night and an e-mail this morning thanking me for being there for her............So XH's family treats me like a member of the family and XH will no doubt hear about this.........plus, when I spoke with X-SIL by phone there was loud music in the background, so this info will probably get back to XH too.........Now, onward with the weekend's activities. GAG
