Oh, he would DEFINITELY take note of that...THE ONE AND ONLY TIME during our hellish last year that I DID this, he had a significant reaction.

Sad thing is, he only THOUGHT I was heading out with my best pal MJ (she likes to bar hop), in fact I sat alone in my parent's empty house for the evening.

But he was quite upset and later told me he figured I was out "husband shopping"...in fact he took off and went out to a bar with his sister and niece that night...I was the one who came home to an empty house!

Pretty sure it can't be a weekly thing as my best pal lives an hour away (one vehicle, her H works shifts, I can't drive in the country at night), and my other best pal is a single working Mom.

But I DO like the idea a lot.

LL...as far as the legs go...he's NEVER mentioned being an "anything kind of man"...(he's NEVER commented on breasts, legs, butts NOTHING...each of the women he's slept with has been VERY different from the others...his xwife is 6 feet 1 inch tall, blonde and big...I'm 5'2, brunnette, busty and petite! )

Mind you, he used to like when I wore the stilletto heels in bed ....but (yup, here comes another excuse, but it's a GOOD ONE!!) I've developed major foot problems in the last 5 years which necessetate the use of orthotic insoles....this limits my "leg showing" to summer when I can wear orthotic sandals!

Nothing stopping me from wearing heels and NOT walkiing in them, though, I suppose! ...I just balk at the thought of getting dolled up and being turned DOWN...as has happened in the past. YOU know what I'm talking about, LL!!

Well best get started on dinner...then we're going out to see "the school of Rock".

Oh, and KAW, yesterday when CJ got home from his group session, he announced that he wasn't going to work this weekend...he's not that enthralled with one of the courses he's taking right now (data modelling). Go figure!

Shiny