Ok, I fee pretty good about the facebook thing. I confronted him as soon as he walked through the door. Not in an ugly way, just, have you got a minute? And he immediately was open and said he does not have an account.
Now, I think I do believe him. He is by nature highly suspicious (doesn't ever put personal info on the web--hates when I put Credit Card stuff on there, etc.) He also is almost computer illiterate and can barely type (I even type his emails for him usually).
What happened is, and if anyone can tell me why or how to check up on this I am all ears: He got an email from someone that wanted to "friend" him. I have never heard of this female person before. In the email, at the bottom, were 6-7 people that my H does know that have sites. They know him, but they do NOT know each other. A couple people from work, his brother, and the wife of a good friend of ours.
I have NEVER gotten an email like that--I am highly suspicious of how he got something like that. He swears up and down he has no account--never made one--and when you search for him, he doesn't come up (I had my S do this). Now, can they have an account and just not be in the facebook search engine??
If I find out he has lied, OMG, he is NAILED. Lurking in infedelity has given me the tools to deal with THAT just as SOON as it rears its ugly head!
