"I have a hunch however that K puts a negative spin on things regarding hubby here (and in her real life) for self preservation purposes and honestly who could blame her." Very perceptive John.
K, your expectations of him are yours alone; at least not his. And I think that's probably true in any R. You can say things a million times and the other person does not get it. MWD says couples continue to fight about the same old things all their life. If the quality time means so much to you communicate that in the best way possible (please, not with negative emotions of anger) and get a solution in place soon or it will continue to eat into you; infidelity of course cannot be tolerated; live with (forgive?) the rest. PMS is understandable but how is a man to know what to take seriously during these volcanic emotional eruptions?
