Thanks for posting to me this am. Sorry I am not up to date on your sitch, but I'll try to chime in from time to time.
Re intel, my W's OMW has a GPS on her H's car and has gathered some very good intel that way. Busted him a few times going where he wasn't supposed to be going.
I set up an internet account on my W's cellphone, which is how I busted her on the A.
Does she use a home computer? For $115 you can get eblaster software that tracks everything. I am using that, but I haven't gotten much with it lately.
Puppy put a voice activated recorded in his W's car so he could get at least on side of the conversation.
There are also recorders you can attach to a home phone line, but not sure if those are legal or not.
Good luck and hang tough man. Telling you on Father's day is just brutal dude. I got it a couple of weeks before, so we may be pretty close inthe timing of our sitch's. I'll try to read up on you when I have time.
