is cj a leg man perhaps? though it is not a solve all...but (if he is a leg man, wich by his comments to ow it sounds that way) perhaps some skirts are in order? long ones with a slit to give subtle showing of the legs? heeled boots to go with? you can even get the chunky heeled ones that will still allow for comfort when walking about campus..(and heck even if cj doesn't act upon it, I'm sure you'll get more ego boosts from others)
I dunno just a thought..seemed to work for me yesterday and I wasn't even suspecting a car ride like that!
