1) Is it really still considered an "affair" or "addiction" if the WAS is living on their own, filed for divorce, and has their own completely separate life? What makes it STILL an affair if the WAS is out the door. Like, what is the difference between the weeks BEFORE the divorce papers are signed, and AFTER. At what point does it no longer become an affair, and just maybe the next relationship.
A: When your divorce is final, or when the two of you mutually agree, out of courtesy and mutual respect for each other, that you are each free to begin dating ... whichever comes first.
