I think that she didn't like me telling them that "she" wanted a divorce. I am not and will not shoulder any of the divorce blame in this situation. I will be accountable for my actions that put in the place she is in and no other. I will make it abundantly clear that I do not want this and am fighting to save it.
Why did you even tell her THAT much? I had already recommended to you, you do NOT owe her any answers here, nor anything that makes it easier/more comfortable for her. And then she has the nerve to ask you what FORM of communication you used to tell them???
I really wish you'd stop responding to her every request for info from you, and go dimmer.
