Well she is here only another 2 weeks.

Then she moves into her own apartment.

And since you know ALOT more about this stuff than me, I have a few questions:

1) Is it really still considered an "affair" or "addiction" if the WAS is living on their own, filed for divorce, and has their own completely separate life? What makes it STILL an affair if the WAS is out the door. Like, what is the difference between the weeks BEFORE the divorce papers are signed, and AFTER. At what point does it no longer become an affair, and just maybe the next relationship.

2) Since she has been "done" with the marriage for about 5-6 months, what makes you think that she isn't just trying to completely move on with her life. In the past month, she's only called me once, and that was about the divorce. When do you know a spouse has truly moved on?

3) What would make YOU think that a WAS is one of those MWD calls "Only a Miracle could bring them back"? I'm not being negative, I just want YOUR opinions.

Last edited by Quicksilver264; 07/31/10 03:23 PM.

Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed